I love to learn new things, and gather my knowledge from a variety of sources.
I subscribe to MENSA newsletters.
I follow industry leaders and innovators on social media.
I subscribe to Google alerts on topics that interest me.
I consume a ton of information from various sources.
I bring up tidbits I’ve learned in conversations with friends and strangers, share my learning on my social media accounts, integrate things I learn into my business strategies, and spend time pondering what I learn.
I think most of these things I do are pretty typical for gifted adults. One major source that I gather information from would probably be looked down upon by most intellectuals.
I consume copious amounts of reality television.
With the advent of Hulu and Netflix, it is possible to binge watch entire seasons, of reality television, and I do that a lot.
Reality television is more than a guilty pleasure for me. It’s one of my most valuable tools for personal learning.
You might not appreciate the value of reality television.
Maybe, you see it as the Twinkies of TV.
Before, you discount my intellect, or roll your eyes, and click on a different article to read, let me share why you should add more reality television to your media consumption routine, and how it may broaden your knowledge base, like it has mine.
I’ve been a reality television fan since watching my first confessional booth on The Real World season 1 when I was a teenager.
I think Reality TV indulges the voyeur inside of us who wants a peek into the life of another person, for what ever reason.
I watch reality television to learn.
As I’ve watched competitions like the Amazing Race, I’ve grown to appreciate and understand international cultures, food, historical landmarks, and travel pitfalls to avoid. (Never leave your bag with your passport and money behind to retrieve later.)
I’ve learned about a variety of methods to prepare food, and performing under pressure, as I’ve consumed hundreds of hours of cooking, food and competitive eating competitions.
I’ve learned about house flipping, DIY projects, interior decorating, and tiny house living.
Reality television has taught me about what people value in antiques and collectibles, and what to look for while I frequent second hand shops.
I’ve learned more than how to skills through watching reality television.
My greatest learning from reality television has been through observing the people cast as contestants or participants.
I love the intricacies of social engineering and influence to form alliances and “win” competitions.
It is especially apparent as I’ve watched various versions of dating/ relationship programs like Beauty and the Geek, The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, and the deliciously trashy Bachelor in Paradise.
My favorite victors in reality competitions combine adaptive strategy, luck and charm.
It is always an amusingly educational experience to watch the link between consuming alcoholic beverages, physical attraction and impulsive decisions.
Sometimes, my learning comes in the form of what not to do.
It can be a hot, train wreck mess, and highly entertaining.
I’ve learned about personal determination, drive, and contestant likability as I’ve watched “talent” competitions like America’s Next Top Model, American Idol, The Voice, and Dancing with the Stars.
I’ve watched reality shows about “regular” people who hoard, have kids who dance, children who compete in pageants, and parents raising multiple birth children. (I watched them before I had my triplets, and when my boys were younger, but don’t very often anymore).
My greatest take away from the “regular person” of reality program is to learn about the consequences of what happens to these people after their shows air and they gain temporary notoriety.
Reality television amplifies and leverages existing marital issues often leading to divorce. Witnessing these relationships evolve and dissolve through the drama of television, and careful post production editing, has taught me pitfalls to avoid in my own relationship.
It’s also why I’m not in a hurry to sign up as a contestant on a reality show.
Reality television has helped me learn more about, and feel a connection with people who probably would not have been in my sphere of influence otherwise.
I’ve observed privileged and ordinary teenagers and early twenty-somethings throw extravagant birthday parties, jet set, adapt to a non-Amish lifestyle, and attempt to live on farms or herd cattle.
The most fascinating people I watch on reality television, are probably gifted. Some have been cast as villains. I’ve marveled as they used their intellect to outwit and outlast other contestants in competitive series like West Point alumni Richard Hatch from Survivor.
Sometimes, the gifted reality stars are children, and sparks controversy, like Kid Nation.
The most brilliant reality television stars have built multifaceted brands, and long term careers from their moments of reality TV fame. Some used the launchpad of a network special to parlay it into a full reality show series, additional reality programs, or become repeat contestants. Others have used their notoriety to gain more financially lucrative employment after their shows end.
I admire reality television stars who have used their time to cultivate loyal, engaged, fan bases on social media networks, and through media interviews.
I won’t tell you how many total hours of reality television I’ve consumed in my life, because I don’t know.
Besides, just because I’m Keeping up with the Kardashians Twinkies in my television diet doesn’t mean that I want to know exactly how many I’ve had over the years.
Genealogy Jen’s Challenge of the Week – What is your favorite reality television show? What do you like about it?
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Hey! Great post, that is interesting that you have learned so much from these, it makes sense to me and this is cool! I’ve always had a hard time getting into/enjoying reality shows. I remember watching the very first season of survivor and liking it then got bored and it just made me want to do my own adventures and not watch. The other shows you mention have never grabbed my interest. I have tried because I enjoy knowing what people are talking about but I find my mind wandering while watching, I can’t seem to focus on the dialogue. I do like “naked and afraid” with Casey, lol, I love her questions. I like “meat eater”, I love his message about hunting and our heritage – and he cooks wild game at the end and I learn something every episode. I like a new show called “alone” I think because the show truly pushes to an extreme so it is fascinating to see what human nature will do. I of course watched a couple episodes if “little women” just because Matt was in it and that premise of a show was not something that could keep my interest either but….was happy he was in it of course.
Totally Molly! I was going to mention my friend that’s on a reality show. I watched the first season, but had to stop. I frustrated me that they made him the villian. When you know that someone isn’t really the way they are portrayed, it’s hard to watch.
I love this so much. I find the more reality TV people watch, the better social skills they have and the better they are at understanding others’ feelings. I have to admit, I am not the biggest reality TV fan, but I am far from what would be considered a “high brow” TV watcher (or would I have to be strictly a film viewer to be high brow?). I think there’s value in everything; and even if the only value is escaping reality for a half hour – who cares? You deserve it!
Ohhh love your point about social skills Tiffany.
When I read my post to my husband last night, he liked it. When I started to talk about Kardashian business brilliance and getting paid thousands per social media post, and to show up to events, he laughed at me. I told him that when he built a multimillion dollar empire and was one of the most influential people in America, he could criticize.
I loved your post! 🙂 I have to confess to having given up most TV with most of my pre-children pastimes (sigh), but I really enjoyed watching early seasons of Survivor… and I can relate to the learning experience of watching the social interactions. I think also found it inspiring to see the “grit” and hard work of contestants. I always enjoy your posts!!